Gifts are things that people give to each other in social exchanges to express good wishes and feelings or to show friendship. A gift is a carrier for the giver to convey information, feelings and intentions to the recipient.


Articles presented to others for pleasing others or showing goodwill or respect. Gifts are also used to celebrate holidays or important days, such as Valentine's Day or birthday gifts.


The value of a gift lies in the goodwill and thought of the giver, not in the value of the gift itself. It doesn't need to be expensive, just a gesture.


The importance of giving gifts.


1. Biological significance.


Humans claim to be higher animals, but they are always part of biological species, subject to biological characteristics, such as hormone glands, hormones and other endocrine characteristics.


On the premise of acquisition and possession, dopamine, as a biological instinct, will continue to secrete, leaving people in an excited and happy mood. At this time, people's enthusiasm for things and acceptance of people have improved significantly.


2. Social significance.


The essence of gift giving is that the relationship between people is not only a non employment relationship, but also an interest relationship. In a variety of complex emotions, such as family, love, there will be a variety of emotional input.


But the premise of such emotional input is based on the mutual benefit of their own values and interests.


Therefore, when people need to maintain balance, gift giving becomes the best way to maintain and develop interpersonal relationships.


When you understand human nature, you understand the secret of gift giving, which includes all the philosophical principles of interpersonal relationships.


How to give gifts?


1. Be familiar with the characteristics of objects.


Inappropriate identity value and gift value will only become a burden for both parties. Because the value of the gift shows the identity of the other party to a certain extent, and also shows the importance of the relationship.


2. Find out what their interests are.


Everyone has his own interests. We should not think only from our own perspective.


3. Consider the relationship between the parties.


Time together and mutual feelings are also important factors to consider. In particular, whether the relationship is harmonious and whether there are frequent gift exchanges.


4. Seize the opportunity and nodes.


In addition to timeliness, there are many time points for gift giving. For example, when the other party is in a bad mood or in trouble, this time is obviously not suitable for giving gifts.


Duplicate gifts are now common. Repetitive gifts are boring, giving people the feeling of coping and lacking sincerity.


Even if the other party likes this gift, they should change it within a similar scope. If you change often, you will feel happy.


For gift giving, this is an important way to maintain the relationship.